There are no shortcuts. Own your truth, break cycles of harmful behaviors.
I promise you, your ego can handle it.
We lie to ourselves…all the time. And as a mindset coach this is reality separates my successful clients from those who find themselves in a repeat cycle, despite reaching out for help.
It’s easy to tell ourselves stories to explain away the truth.
It’s easy to over-analyze every aspect of yourself.
It’s easy to make a discovery and then “feel evolved” to protect our ego and not spiral or fall apart.
The truth is, growth involves more than just the mind. Your body tells you the truth. Your heart provides great information. Your environment and the people who you attract tell even more.
My truth? Well, I left NYC and moved to Phoenix to give myself space to rediscover who I am. In New York, I was grinding—high-achieving, but deeply unfulfilled. Phoenix became a place of revival. I rebuilt myself. Then I fell apart. I put myself back together again. I hid my gifts, my true interests, and fought through limiting beliefs about being seen and known. And then, I rebuilt again and left.
Phoenix was the perfect environment for me to safely and courageously grow. It was far enough removed for me to start fresh but connected enough to show me where I was misaligned, ensuring I didn’t get stuck in endless self-development without action.
In today’s world, we face struggles with hiding parts of ourselves, held back by limiting beliefs and fears connected to our greater purpose. And the truthof self-development is that even when we begin to break through those barriers, we face that reality that the battle doesn’t end—it evolves. Our self-work does not end; it simply evolves y'all! What shifts is our ability to confront these challenges with greater strength and resilience.
So the real question is: how are you actively building the skills and foresight to step into the next version of yourself? How willing are you to embrace the discomfort of transformation and fully align with your life's calling?
Who we become is directly linked to how deeply we engage in the inner work.
Your journey requires owning your truth and dismantling cycles of behavior that no longer serve you. And while the ego may resist, it’s far more capable of handling this process than we often give it credit for.
xoxo,
Nu
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